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Friday, 25 January 2019
The Change we seek II: 4 years on.
Monday, 16 July 2018
"PIERCED AND TATTED"
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Wednesday, 13 June 2018
Love is a beautiful thing
"kids, this is the story about how I met your mother"
This is a Ted Mosby inspired write up.
I've just finished watching how i met your mother recently, (yes i only just watched it), and I've learnt or rather I've realized quite a few things from the emotional roller coaster ride of Ted Evelyn Mosby ( he never should have told Barney that middle name truly). it kind of fits at this point in my life and I'd like to share some of the insights for me from the show.
first is, when it comes to relationships, never settle, never settle for less, your whole life will revolve around the individual you eventually decide to be with, so it is important that that person be someone you have a deep connection with. The person you eventually end up with may not " tick all your boxes", they may not like everything you like and vice versa, but isn't that the beauty of a relationship? its about appreciating your similarities and respecting your differences. After so many years of searching, and settling, Ted came to this realization right before he met his wife. in so many of the previous relationships he had been in, it was mostly out of loneliness, or ( in most cases) an
"I'd just settle for this one, lets see how it goes". That's a NO NO people, you have the right to be with the person you truly deserve, The person who "completes you".
Ted went through a lot of relationships in the series, but always had a thing for Robin. even when she didn't feel the same way, so deep down, he was never fully committed in any of the subsequent relationships he had after Robin, because he hadn't fully let go of Robin. To be able to embrace the future mrs ted mosby, when she finally came, Ted had to fully let go (no matter how hard it was ). that leads me to part of the things i realized. don't hold on to the past, learn to let things go, if its not working out, don't force it. what will be will be.
Relationships nowadays are more like a past time hobby for us young folks, the concept of falling in love has been greatly eroded by our woke generation. but when you finally get to that moment when you're ready, it is important that you remember that every one deserves to love and to love greatly, love is a beautiful thing (don't get it twisted), the most powerful force in the universe. love can be demanding and sacrificial, it requires two people that truly want to be together, its not always a bed of roses. but, when you finally find 'the one'. it all becomes worth it.
(p.s Barney Stinson's awesome!)
Wednesday, 10 August 2016
Day 26 and the rest...
So this is the final lap of the blog challenge!
It's been a long journey, but we're finally here,
I hope I'll be dropping more posts from now on..
Day 26
Hidden talent?
Hmmm...
I know how to sing very well...in the shower..
Day 27
What's in your closet?
Everything.
Everything I need.
Everything you can think of that you think I need
Day 28
Most embarrassing moment?
Try to avoid that a lot.
There was this one time in junior secondary that I had to do a debate, and I totally flopped,
Its still fresh in my head.
Day 29
A confession?
I can be susceptible to emotional palava...
So I try to avoid drama as much as possible
Day 30
Hopes for your blog?
I hope every youth that visits will be empowered through his own works. I want to give the youth their freedom of expression...that we seem to have lost...
Most of all I hope that I can be a catalyst for positive change through this medium.
So help me God.
Saturday, 30 July 2016
Day 19 and more...
Hi people!
Been away for a while
How y'all doing?
Day 18...well we'll get back to that
Day 19
Your favorite movie?
Tough choice, but ill go with lionheart. Jean claude van damme played the lead role…classic!
Day 20
What makes you happy?
Lots of things actually, you know it’s the little little things in life that count…
Day 21
What makes you sad?
Injustice, seeing people suffer for no just cause…things like that
Day 22
Your worst habits?
Hmm..i procastinate stuff sometimes, I drink too much tea and eat too much bread.
Day 23
If you won the lottery?
Wow!
The lottery!
I’ll be an accountant and utilize the money judiciously and efficiently…after buying my dream house, with a grand piano. And of course touch lives positively
Day 24
What attracts you in love?
Hmmm…
It’s a dicey situation…
For me, a thinker and a doer, someone who has a deep love for a GOD, someone who understands, who knows all my flaws and imperfections but still thinks I’m amazing…I hope that’s not too much to ask lol.
Day 25
Your biggest regret?
Not taking the opportunties and risk I should have…for fear of failure or the feeling of not being good enough.
But yet again… ‘it all fits in in the grand scheme of things’





